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Questions?

Most of the information on this page is presented in more detail on the appropriate pages of this site; however, the answers to what may be termed "frequently asked questions” are presented here in a central location for convenience, and, I might say, for your amusement.

Where are your premises?
Do I have to put up with being marked?
I like a bit of pain, but not too much…
Actually, I don’t like pain at all…
Forget the pain, I’ve never done anything like this before… will you still see me?
Actually, I’m a pain slut… will you still see me?
Dear Mistress, what are your personal interests?
Dear Mistress, is it true you like cats?
Can I have another domme, or dom, or submissive participate in a session?
Do you see females and couples?
Do you offer remote domination or training by telephone or email?
Do you produce or participate in videos, or offer video material for sale, hire or download?
Is there anything else you don’t do?
Well then, do you switch?
Are your premises clean?
Do you offer extended sessions, and scenarios outside of your premises?
Can I book half-hour sessions?
Can I book a same-day appointment?
Do you take on personal submissives or servants?
What is your tribute?
What happens if I cancel a session more than twice?
Dear Mistress, do you train aspiring dommes to become professionals?
Is there anything else I should know?

Where are your premises?

I am located in north-east Bristol, not far from the city centre, just off junction 2 of the M32. My premises are my own; a quieter, more discreet location would be difficult to find. Free, safe parking in the vicinity is plentiful, and bus and train services are nearby. My facilities, consisting of a purpose-built BDSM studio and a completely separate domestic room, are well appointed to maintain the discretion of the location. If you are looking for a professional mistress in Bristol, you could not ask for more discreet and convenient premises.

Do I have to put up with being marked?

The short answer is "No, definitely not”. Domination takes on a multitude of forms and as a lifestyle dominatrix, I will be able to take you to where you want to be without leaving any signs whatsoever, if that is your wish. This is one of the reasons why a pre-session discussion is important: to determine where you want to be and how you’d like to get there. The rest is up to me. Rest assured you are in safe, experienced and non-judgemental hands.

I like a bit of pain, but not too much…

You are by no means alone in this. I will establish exactly what you are seeking in our pre-session discussion, and there will be mechanisms in place during the session to ensure your safety, your peace of mind, and – relatively speaking – your comfort.

Actually, I don’t like pain at all…

You need not worry – as mentioned above regarding marks and other signs of sessioning, domination takes many forms and pain is by no means at all necessary. The fantasies I will be dealing with are yours, and if your fantasies involve no pain, but revolve around other forms of domination or, perhaps, around a particular fetish, then there will be no pain. There is not much I have not seen, if not dealt with personally, in my life in BDSM, so you will be able to relax after our pre-session discussion knowing that your limits, whatever they may be, have been respected.

Forget the pain, I’ve never done anything like this before… will you still see me?

Of course. I have a great deal of experience with newcomers, and I enjoy helping them discover this fabulous universe of alternative body–mind experience; in fact, I regard it as a privilege to assist in a voyage of discovery. Once again, one of the purposes of a thorough pre-session discussion is to prepare you for the road that lies ahead.

Actually, I’m a pain slut… will you still see me?

In this case, your pain is my pleasure! I do, however, have one caveat regarding the "severe” category of activity: I will not entertain judicials on a first session. To judge the severity of CP and the overall intensity of scening with you, I will need the experience of a first session to get to know your characteristics, pain threshold and other relevant personal limits.

Dear Mistress, what are your personal interests?

I have many interests in life, but here I will keep to BDSM and fetishism. My passions are leather, corsets, boots and heels and hats, rope, and well-designed, finely made specialist BDSM furniture and implements. I am, as you may have guessed, amply endowed with all of these. And let me not forget CBT, my favourite activity.

Dear Mistress, is it true you like cats?

Yes, with a passion, and also most other animals, although, it must be said, I am not fond of great whites, funnel webs and eastern browns.

Can I have another domme, or dom, or submissive participate in a session?

I do not arrange a third party to join sessions on a first visit; however, if you have visited me previously and we have sessioned successfully and established good rapport, then I can arrange any combination of the above with appropriate notice, and subject to the activities you are requesting. The tribute for such sessions will reflect the participation of the additional dominatrix and/or dominant and/or submissive as well as an additional studio-hire fee, as such sessions will not be conducted at my own premises but at other nearby professional studios.

Do you see females and couples?

I do indeed, and females and couples are encouraged to contact me if what I present on this site is of interest. In fact, I see myself as a lifestyle coach for couples, whether hetero or homosexual, and I am more than pleased to offer "relationship therapy” where an established couple can be guided through an exploration of various aspects of BDSM, from exploring mutual fantasies in a safe, sane and consensual manner, to improving communication skills and enhancing mutual understanding and respect.

Do you offer remote domination or training by telephone, email or webcam?

I do not. I like to deal with real people who own a body and with whom I can interact in real time and space. I do not offer erotic or other telephone or internet services and I regard email and texting as essential tools of communication and nothing more. Requests to oversee chastity is a form of remote domination I do not offer if that request comes from someone I have not seen before; this means that if you have not already successfully sessioned with me, and you ask me if I will take charge of the key of your chastity device at our first meeting, I will decline to do so.

Do you produce or participate in videos, or offer video material for sale, hire or download?

No, I do not produce or participate in videos in any format; and I do not offer any kind of video material whatsoever for sale or for hire at any venue, or for online viewing or download either from my own websites or via any other forum.

Is there anything else you don’t do?

There’s a lot I don’t do, and that is my prerogative. My fundamental "don’ts” are listed and explained on no less than three other pages on this site, but I will repeat them here: I do not provide sexual services of any form or variety (and that includes "forced bi”); I do not engage in breath play, ball-busting, watersports, scat or anal play, "adult baby” scenes, wrestling, body worship above my stocking tops (and that includes no face-sitting), medical play, or any activity that breaks the skin; and I do not deliver judicial CP or arrange third parties to join sessions on a first visit to me. I do not session nude or partly nude, as my personal perception of nudity associates it with the submissive role (and with "adult services” that I do not offer). I also recommend you read my News item, The finer points of ‘I do not do...’

Well then, do you switch?

No. I am a dominatrix: savour the word. A dominatrix does not switch. If you want a switch session, you should seek out a switch; if you are looking for a genuine domina, you should seek exactly that. With appropriate notice, I am usually able to arrange for a professional submissive to join our sessions.

Are your premises clean?

I work from my own premises, so my premises – and the equipment I use – are always kept to a high standard. I don’t do medical play or break the skin during sessions so contamination risk is minimal to begin with. Where appropriate, I wear disposable latex gloves, and all equipment that needs sterilisation is done so using medical-grade sterile and antiseptic cleaners.

Do you offer extended sessions, and scenarios outside of your premises?

I will consider extended, more complex and public scenes after at least one regular session at my premises, either in my studio or in my domestic room. These extended and "real world” scenes can include, for example, overnight caging, shopping (for both of us, or solely for me), or dining out (either "straight”, or perhaps you wearing a collar, or perhaps as my manservant or maidservant), or attending public BDSM/fetish events. Subject to negotiation – and only after a trusting relationship has been established – overnight and 24-hour sessions can be arranged.

Can I book half-hour sessions?

For first-timers, the answer is a very definite "No”. For my regulars – and this means people with whom I have already successfully sessioned – I offer, when necessary, the Geo Pinch "lunchtime special” of a half-hour session in my Domestic Room. The minimum session time I normally offer is one hour, and this remains the case for Studio sessions. There are very good reasons for this, including the vital function of effective communication and the building of a minimum level of rapport – both of which cannot be achieved in a mere 30 minutes, and is why I only offer the "lunchtime special” to regulars for domestic scenarios. Those looking for a "quickie” should look elsewhere: I am not interested in such superficial interaction. (See also my News item, Reminder: The Geo Pinch ‘lunchtime special’.)

Can I book a same-day appointment?

For my regulars, yes, I will accommodate same-day and short-notice bookings whenever possible. For first-time sessioners with me, however, I do not normally accept same-day bookings: this is my standard policy, for good reason, so do not be surprised or offended if I decline such requests. (See also my News item, My policy on same-day bookings.)

Do you take on personal submissives or servants?

I have my personal and regular submissives whom I have known for years, and at present I am not seeking servants or any other kind of submissive outside of tribute-based activities. However, from time to time I do seek the services of a maid or servant for domestic duties. You are free to respectfully enquire as to whether I have any vacancies in this regard, but do not be surprised or disappointed if I cannot present you with any opportunities.

What is your tribute?

Tribute begins at £100 an hour for office, strict aunt, school and other consenting role-play scenarios for adults in my domestic room, and thenceforth £40 per extra half hour. Tribute for BDSM scenes in the more rigorous, atmospheric environment of my studio starts at £140 for the first hour depending on the activities, and thenceforth £50 per extra half hour.

My first session with you, whether domestic room or studio, will include a complimentary extra half hour for a pre-session discussion and post-session chat and chill-out, regardless of the actual session time you ask for, and all subsequent sessions will include extra time for a short pre-session chat and a longer post-session cup of tea and chill-out, as required.

I also operate a "loyalty” programme that offers regular visitors a session of their choice at half the usual tribute for every seventh session (see my News item Introducing the Geo Pinch Loyalty Card).

What happens if I cancel a session more than twice?

We all know that life and work sometimes get in the way of the best-laid plans and good intentions. However, if you cancel a session appointment on three consecutive occasions, I will then ask you to pay a deposit as evidence of good faith to proceed with yet another booking. The deposit will take the form of a gift e-voucher to a value specified by myself. I will need to be credited with the e-voucher before I will proceed with the fourth booking for your session time. However, at my discretion, I may ask for a deposit after the second cancellation (rather than the third).

Dear Mistress, do you train aspiring dommes to become professionals?

No, I do not train professional mistresses or offer "apprenticeships”. I get quite a few enquiries every year asking about this, and my advice is always the same: if you’re serious and want to be genuinely professional, then do it the old-fashioned way, from the ground up. That is, become a part of the BDSM scene at grass-roots level for a minimum of two years before even thinking of setting up professionally. That includes attending munches and as many different kinds of events in as many different places as possible. Do a lot of reading, and practice, practice, practice. Experience, competence and respect have to be earned with time and hard work.

Is there anything else I should know?

Everything you should know is presented in detail on this website – so read it carefully. Particularly important information of the very practical variety is in the session etiquette section on my studio page: I suggest you read it now if you have not already done so. I also have another website that focusses on my activities as a Bristol dominatrix. This site is concise (only three pages) and presents a slightly different perspective of myself: search for "Bristol Mistress Geo” (preferably with Yahoo or Bing rather than Google, where results can be erratic).

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